It was said, love comes at first sight. True, but not true. Oh, how we love to refer to a male and female “fall in love”. It does not strike me as peculiar, seen that you more fall in lust than anything else. Yes, a physical attraction is crucial, but love grows.
Let me give you a classic example of myself before I was married. I was so lonely and desperate I would do crazy things of which I am not particularly proud of,